What life seems to be when you are at crossroads? When your trust betrays you and made mockery of your beliefs and faith? You know you can’t retreat back but you are baffled to go further because you have no ground to stand, you have now no one to rely on. When you feel desperate, humiliated, discarded and looked down upon.
What you would do, when you love a person with all your being and you suddenly realize the person has been playing dirty games with you? He always seemed to be so true, lovable, and trustworthy. But how all it happened, you can’t think. It seems to be an illusion itself. You can’t understand what is the truth? You have no answers to get because it is man’s mentality to take and not to give.
Some people wreck because of their trust and conviction. Yet it is said Love conquers all. It is a ridiculous irony. I learnt life is paradoxical. Human is weak, lustful, licentious, dishonest; animal more than animals.
Yes, I am bursting out. The other day one of my close friends rang me up and told me about her pathetic condition. I can’t forget her sobbing. She was totally broken. Her B.F. got involved with a married woman. Whenever she tries to forbid him, he gets annoyed every now and then. Her beautiful life has become nauseating, sickening.
What was her mistake? Was it her faith in him?
They had been in relationship for seven years. The boy promised her marriage. They came so far… crossed all boundaries yet in the name of love she had always been cheated. Yes, some people love to play with lives, emotions, heart…
Whom to blame; the boy or the married woman? Both should know what is right and what is wrong? I must say the woman was also not faithful to her husband in some ways.
Social pollution like extramarital relationships, licentious involvements are started sucking our so called Indian ethics, morality, values. It is deepening inside our psyche!
What is love? Can somebody tell? Is this a liberty to be irresponsible to one’s deeds? Is this a liberty to play dirty games? Betray trust and ruin life?
Often I think profoundly, we boast our Indian ness, our unique culture. But is it just for identity sake? Just for a sham? What actually is being Indian? What is Indian psyche? What is Indian culture and what are Indian values?
I would like to say to the guys who are in relationships, Please don’t say words which you really don’t mean! You don’t really stand for! Don’t say ‘I love you’ until you are really honest to the person… it will end that very emotion from your life. You will never be able to enjoy that state ever again. Don’t kill the essence and purity of human precious emotions.
Stop being DRAMA KING/QUEEN!
© By Pranati Saikia
© By Pranati Saikia
